Are your standards too high?
May 15, 2019

Getting married isn’t the law. If you don’t want to be faithful to someone, don’t get married.

That’s my view.

So why am I still best pals with someone who once told me she wouldn’t hesitate to cheat on her husband if given the right opportunity?

Because that’s her business, not mine. It’s between her and her husband (or not, I guess). But you know what I mean.

If you only associate with people whose views are exactly the same as yours, that circle will be very small -- and your mind will become increasingly closed. It’s good to test your worldviews once in a while. If they’re sound, they’ll hold up to the scrutiny. If not, that scrutiny will be the least of your problems!